Let me make it clear about you’re an asshole if you ghost people.

Let me make it clear about you’re an asshole if you ghost people.

It appears that within the period of social media marketing, smart phones, and dating apps, ghosting is really a feature that is regular the entire world of contemporary romance — indeed, often even in relationships which are solely platonic.

Fast reminder when it comes to old people: ghosting occurs when someone interacting that is you’re falls from the map and prevents interacting — whether it is after a couple of brief communications after matching on swipe/online dating (SOD — never suggest this btw), as much as a real relationship which will or may not have included intercourse.

The thing I find troubling is the fact that we appear to accept ghosting with a shrug for the shoulders — that the person ghosting is somehow justified in doing this (this appears particularly so as soon as the ghoster is a female), if not that the individual being ghosted is somehow to blame. Continue reading