Tinder is about appears you may already know and predicated on that we attract males that I’m not drawn to.

Tinder is about appears you may already know and predicated on that we attract males that I’m not drawn to.

(30 F) I’ve had Tinder for under a day and I’ve had nothing but anxiety. I experienced 1 match whom never reacted and I also recognized We myself had inadvertently swiped close to a couple of dudes, imagine if I became their accident? But also for real- I’ve invested years taking care of personal self image and self- self- self- confidence, finally experiencing liberated from most of the bullshit and moments that they were doing that to me), felt like I was harming myself in I suddenly felt like what I was doing was wrong, like in its own way, participating in something that required me to make a snap first impression (based pretty much just on image/looks) without knowing someone’s motive or how genuine they are (and. Out there in person (no matter how awkward) somehow gives me a better idea of someone’s authenticity while I understand its a “tool” to make it easier to meet people, it honestly feels harder whereas just putting yourself. Personally I think like i’ve sufficient social media marketing “tools” since it is shoving these conventions and ideals down my neck that We don’t require the additional anxiety or force. Maybe 1 day i am going to try it once more but at this time it feels like i’d be placing myself in a situation why I’m simply hurting myself and we don’t desire to force it. Continue reading